Let the Party Begin!!! Here is one happy 1st grader, ready to celebrate. The first grade theme had something to do with parties and celebrating. At back to teacher night (the night I refused to talk about) each kid took home a cute present from the teacher. Inside it were all these items that coordinated with a 1st grade survival list (smarties - everyone's a smartie, Lifesaver - you can talk to any adult if you need help, Band-aids - to help hurt feelings, Hugs - everyone needs hugs, starburst - all the kids are stars, erasers - we make mistakes and learn from them). Charlotte ate all the candy right up, without giving any thought to what each treat meant but I kept the cute list and she'll appreciate it more someday.
One year ago.
Not that different. Her face is maybe a little more babyish last year.
I thought I could keep my emotions together because we've done this once before but I was wrong. It wasn't anything compared to the sobbing mess I was a year ago, but there's something about stepping on that campus full of kids hussling around on the first day that makes me sad or happy. I'm not sure which, I just know I felt like crying. My big girl just keeps getting bigger. Here's the differnce in just one year.
Mason got put in timeout this morning and he cried out for "Joe" to rescue him. He'll be a sad guy when he realizes she won't be around much. Another difference in this year and last is that I've already done a few errands today. I think last year I sat in the house by the phone waiting for the call that I had to come rescue her. It never came. Having a cell phone didn't help because I wouldn't have been close enough to the school to get to her in time.
Here's one more picture of her with her new teacher Mrs. Graham. She was her student teacher last year.
So for some last minute sappiness. I don't know why I'm into sharing stories and poems but I was telling my friend about this one this morning and had to go dig it out. It will make you cry if you have little ones in school because it relates so much to how we feel as mama's. We got it from Mrs. Dorsey when Charlotte started preschool so some of you might recognize it.
To Whom It May Concern
by Ina Hughes
Wouldn't it be nice if a mom could send her child out into the world with a list of instructions and a guarantee? The day they set out for kindergarten, all slicked up in a new outfit and carrying shiny new lunch boxes, if we mothers who smile and sniff back at the bus stop had our "druthers," we'd send along a letter that goes something like this:
To Whom It May Concern, and I Sure Hope It Does:
This is a Very special little five-year-old girl. She is especially special to her father, who is still mumbling incoherently about where all the time has gone.
It seems like only yesterday when she spent her mornings flopping around in my shoes and watching Captain Kangaroo. However, if you know a few important things about her, I am sure she will love school as much as I did a hundred years ago.
Whenever she gets hurt or upset, she gets a stomach ache. The best remedy is to put her on your lap and kiss her three times~on the cheek, neck, and forehead. Just a little family ritual perhaps you should know about. She likes to be called Snicklefritz, her daddy's pet name for her, which might come in handy if she gets homesick.
As for lunch, she doesn't like spinach, squash, asparagus, cooked carrots, yams (only sweet potatoes with marshmallows), beets, veal, or potato salad. She likes hot dogs (no mustard), hamburgers (with mayonnaise), soup (Campbell's Chicken & Stars), pizza (plain), and peanut butter (not the generic kind and never crunchy). Please add a teaspoon of sugar to her milk or else she will make a horrible face and may spit it out.
Her lunch money will be in a little purse around her neck. She knows her quarters from her nickels, but dimes give her a fit. Just remind her a dime is the thing she swallowed once. If she ever should lose her money, please don't let her go hungry. We have MasterCard and Visa.
She forgets sometimes that she needs to go to the bathroom, but you can usually tell by the way she stands. She doesn't like to wash her hands before lunch, so will you patiently remind her about ten times?
Should there ever be a thunderstorm during school, please hold her hand and make jokes about how the angels must be bowling in heaven. I know that's not very scientific, but it helps. You'll probably need to comb her hair every day after recess. Please use only covered rubber bands, and I'm sure you can tell that it looks better parted on the left.
She's very worried about carrying her own lunch tray without the food sliding off, and about finding my car after school. So, would you carry her tray for, say, the first six months? My car is a green Dodge, and there will be a dog waiting in it with me.
She has several special talents perhaps you should know about. For instance, she made up a cute little song about a bumble bee. If you ever could use it, I am sure her father would be delighted to come do the background buzzing. She can make French toast in her Easy-Bake oven, get to fifteen doing the lemon twist, and recently wrote a poem about "Giggley, the Wiggley Worm," which might be nice for the school paper.
If you will remember these few things about our Precious Angel, I am sure she will be your favorite student, destined to fame in the Red Robin Reading Group, the Talent Development Program, the Safety Patrol and, eventually, Phi Beta Kappa.
Should you need me, don't hesitate to call: 373-0689 (home); 332-5123 (office); 375-3969 (next door); 352-8197 (her dad's office); 382-1763 (the grocery store where I shop, just in case); 387-5211 (where Dad eats lunch); or 374-2221 (police).
I'll be happy to come sit in the desk with her, if you ever need me.
P.S. Please donl make her grow up too fast. We like her just the way she is!







